Wednesday, February 22, 2012


Be strong enough to face the world each day.
Be weak enough to know you cannot do everything.
Be generous to those who need your help.
Be frugal with what you need yourself.
Be wise enough to know that you do not know everything.
Be foolish enough to believe in miracles.
Be willing to share your joys.
Be willing to share the sorrows of others.
Be a leader when you see a path others have missed.
Be a follower when you are shrouded in the midst of uncertainty.
Be the first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.
Be the last to criticize a colleague who fails.
Be sure where your next step will fall, so that you will not stumble.
Be sure of your final destination, in case you are going the wrong way.
Be loving to those who love you.
Be loving to those who do not love you, and they may change.
                       Above all, be yourself!

The Attitude is Everything Movie

The Attitude is Everything Movie

My Life...

The reason you never cross my mind is because you're always on my mind.
The reason why I don't like you is because I love you.
The reason I don't want you is because I need you.
The reason I wouldn't cry if you left is because I would die if you left.
The reason I wouldn't live for you is because I would die for you.
The reason why I'm not willing to do anything for you is because I would do everything for you.
The reason I chose my life is because you ARE my life......

Saturday, February 11, 2012

BE and FEEL...

The shortcut to anything you want in your life is to BE and FEEL happy now! It is the fastest way to bring anything you want into your life.  Remember to remember, that thoughts become things!

My thoughts....

If you’re feeling good, then you’re creating a future that’s on track with your desires. If you’re feeling bad, you’re creating a future that’s off track with your desires. As you go about your day, the law of attraction is working in every second. Everything we think and feel is creating our future. If you’re worried or in fear, then you’re bringing more of that into your life throughout the day.

Thursday, February 9, 2012

She Is A Woman!

Woman is made great in gentleness
Woman is tender and soft in her acts
Woman speaks with deep sincerity
Woman expresses herself in kind ways

Woman assures everything is alright when it is not
Woman stands for her poise though there is doubt
Woman loves passionately like there is no end to it
Woman comforts even when a situation turns worst

Woman always stood for her precious
Woman always choose to be generous
Woman never point fingers at her betrayer
Woman never says no to a pleading stranger

She is a woman who remains anonymous
She is a woman who is indeed magnanimous!

A Good teacher

A Good teacher is one,
who teaches with love.
A Good teacher is one,
who Corrects Students and make them Grow,
Instead of shouting and making them slow.
A Good teacher is one,
who makes Things to Flow.
A Good teacher is one,
who gets things done as and when.
A Good teacher is one,
who never treats a student as Foe.
A Good teacher is one,
who Teachings must help in long Run.
A Good teacher is one,
who says always it can be done.
A Good teacher is one,
who should never make students Run,
Instead have Great Fun.
A Good teacher is one,
who must be always Bright and Teach Students Right.
A Good teacher is one, who is always a best Friend

Thank You..

Thank you,
Thanks for looking after me
Thanks for having someone to look upto and admire
Thanks for giving me time
Thanks for giving me space
Thanks for giving me endless advice
Thanks for making me laugh
Thanks for making me cry
Thanks for making me sing
Thanks for making me sigh
Thanks for just being you
Thanks for just listening
thanks for making me stop!

Why I love you...

You give to me hope
And help me to cope
When life pulls me down
You bring me around

You teach me to care
And help me to share
You make me honest
With kindness the best

From you I learned love
With grace from above
It's for you I live
And I want to give

You are the reason
That fills each season
When I hear love I think of you
You are my world and best friend too

I love you because you are so kind, thoughtful and caring
I love you because you are so pleasant, lovely and sharing

You made me the woman I am
Thank you


The power of truth is in the belief
The power of love in the heart
The power of faith is felt in the mind
With every member of your being a part

Yet the power of change is hard to adjust
Because temptation is so hopelessly strong
While the power of right is substantially hard
You must overcome the power of wrong

But the power in you is much greater than all
In you his power is born
So when the unfairness of life takes your power away
Remember to whom the power belongs...

Love my family...

My family is everything to me
family is always going to
be there for you
family is the people
you trust
family is the kind of people
who cares a lot about you
family is the first people
you come to if
you have a problem
just remember that
family is going to
be there no matter what
in tough times
and in easy times
in you could
think of
everything so family
is going to be there
no matter what
so I just want to say

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Will You

I don't think you will
ever fully understand
how you've touched my life
and made me who I am.

I don't think you could ever know
just how truly special you are
that even on the darkest nights
you are my brightest star.

I don't think you will ever fully comprehend
how you've made my dreams come true
or how you've opened my heart
to love and the wonders it can do.

You've allowed me to experience
something very hard to find
unconditional love that exists
in my body, soul, and mind.

I don't think you could ever feel
all the love I have to give
and I'm sure you'll never realize
you've been my will to live.

You are an amazing person
and without you I don't know where I'd be.
Having you in my life
completes and fulfills every part of me

Monday, February 6, 2012

Life is a journey...

Remember that life is temporary to waste it and not living it to the fullest.  Life is a one way journey. Don’t walk through life towards death without even enjoying it because we are too busy with working with wrong priorities.

25 Secrets to Good Life

The secret to good life is a life that’s lived to the fullest.

Each of us has our own way of life, “indifferences” as they call it. But the reality is that even how different we are and the way we live, there is still one universal truth, values and principles that is governing our world. These truths are both simple and general that if you try to learn and apply them in your life, a great change can happen.
Such truth gives other people a chance to find their place in this world and to live their life to its fullness. While for others who does not know these principles, it makes their life so hard, dull and miserable.
The question now  is, how can achieve the good life and live life to the fullest?
Learning and knowing the answer to this question can help you make your life as happier and successful as it should be.
So if you are serious in creating positive changes in your life, start learning and applying the principles of living the good life.

1. Live Today

Past can’t be brought back and the future will always be uncertain. Today is yours, so make the most of it.

2. Maintain Balance

Your life is affected by the four aspects that are mental (brain), emotional (heart), spiritual (faith) and physical (body). Learn to maintain balance of the four aspects, for as Spice girls have sung, “Too much of something is bad”.

3. Forgive and Forget

The only person that suffers when you do not forgive is YOU. The other person is probably caring less of what you feel. Be kind to yourself and forget about it.

4. Accept Change as Part of Life

The more you can adapt to change, the easier your life is because change can open bigger and better possibilities for you, if only you’d accept it.

5. Visit Places You Never Been

Seeing a new place let you discover and learn more of other things in your life. It helps you expand your perspective and horizon.

6. Read Books

The best way to live is through continuously learning. Try to be better than “normal” yourself. Keep expanding and growing.

7. Attend Classes

Just like the swimming lessons you’ve always wanted to take back in high school. Remember that you’d never be too old to learn and discover where you really can win and be happy.

8. Take Time to Make Memories and Keep Your Journals

We should not wait for memories to happen, we should make memories happen. Find time to create memories with others. Make a note of each moment you do not want to forget, both the good and bad. Read your journal once in a while to see how far you’ve gone along. Surely, it will make you SMILE.

9. Capture the Moments

The ability to retrieve a memory decreases exponentially unless boosted by artificial aids like photographs and videos.  Start taking those pictures you’d like to look back in your old days.

10. Smile

Nothing beats a cheerful heart and mind. Be happy regardless. Make the world a better place to live in. Start sharing your sweet smile.

11. Join a Club

To learn more about yourself is by being more exposed in to new people and learning from them. It will help you and everyone else grow; we evolve at the rate of the tribe we are plugged into.

12. Learn to Give

The old saying would always be true, “The more you give, the more you receive”. Our value as human being resides on what we can give and not on our capacity of receiving. Start spreading goodness by giving.

13. Spend Time With The Young Ones

There’s no better stress reliever than the joy and positive feeling given by the free spirit of a young one.

14. Open Your Ears to the Elders

Listening to the old ones makes you a year wiser. Remember, the best way to learn and avoid extreme failure is through the experiences of others.

15. Accept and Manage Failure

Do not be afraid to make mistake. Most successful people have gone thru multiple failures. A great treasure of wisdom is hidden on every failure.

16. Take Risk

Life is full of chances and you do not live if you do not take chances. As they say, the higher the risk the higher possibility of success.

17. Cry

Who said that boys and big girls don’t cry? You need to cry, it eases the burden plus it will keep you from having diseases that’s caused by emotional pains.

18. Respect Other’s Opinion

Who wins in an argument? Keep yourself from arguments. Nothing is solved with a heated talk. Learn to listen to what others may say without necessary believing and taking them as true for you.

19. Take a Break

Reward yourself for a days’ work. Take that break, you deserve it and you need it in re-energizing yourself to another day of work.

20. Work Smart, Not Hard

The most stressed people are those who do not know how to work smart. Do not take the entire task to yourself. Remember, you are not alone in this world. Learn to maximize and trust the abilities of others. It’s not a weakness to ask for help.

21. Be Yourself

Don’t try to act like someone else just to please everyone. You don’t have to, plus you can’t. Stand firm to who you are. Eventually, you’d discover who are worth keeping in your life from those who are not.

22. Start Caring

People don’t care how much you know, they want to know how much you care. Start caring and let the people know that you care. Remember, that relationship is more lasting than accomplishments and prestige.

23. Meditate

Take a time to be with yourself and be silent. Such can relax the fast-pace life you are in and helps you discover more of whom you are and who you can become.

24. Discover Your Definite Purpose

Life is a journey. As you go along your journey, set your maps. Discover the right you at the right place and time. To help you discover, ask yourself, “If there was no praise or criticism in the world, then who would you be?”
Once you know the answer, you are right there.

25Live Life with the World

Do not live for yourself alone; remember that there are other people and creatures that surrounding this world.  Even if unaware, every move and action you take creates an effect to others.
So learn to take responsibility of your actions. And start contributing your knowledge and experience for the benefit of the whole world.
Life is not easy nor that tough neither. Having a good life and living our life to its fullness is merely a choice.  So make that choice to live life to it’s fullest.
How?  Is a long list!  And unfathomable life is, this list has surely have not covered all the ways.  You too have your own share on how to live life to its fullest.  Feel free to start contributing it here

Live Life to the Fullest...

Live Life to the Fullest is living a full life, it means being ALIVE!

Living Life to the Fullest doesn’t mean your wasting your life, doing crazy stuff and just carelessly do your own thing..
Live Life to the fullest is a LIFESTYLE of:
  1. Positive Thinking;
  2. Making Choices and Knowing What You Want;
  3. Creating Balance;
  4. Building Great Relationships;
  5. Maintaining Fitness and Good Health;
  6. Expanding and Growing Out of Your Comfort Zone;
  7. Achieving Inner Peace and Personal Growth;
  8. Successes in Whatever You Choose To Do;
  9. Facing Your Fears; and
  10. Learning From Failures.

6 Steps to Maturity

Maturity is an invaluable asset in developing close personal and social relationship.  If you long to be more confident and capable, and more spontaneous in living the new era with ease and success, find out for yourself to what extent your maturity is.
The practice of maturity means acting.  Act as if you are already the mature person as you can be.
And to help you get started in becoming a mature person, here are the steps:

1. Understand Yourself

If there is no praise or criticism in the world, who would you be?
Take time to spend alone in silence of your true self and answer the question above.  It may require you to go out of town or just lock yourself up in your room, but don’t neglect the importance of taking time to answer it.
A step to maturity is knowing oneself.  To see yourself as others see you.

2. Be Yourself

Will people still love you if you start honoring your own wants in life?  Will they still value you?
A mature person knows how to exercise personal rights without denying the rights of others.  It includes your gifts and drawbacks, your potentials and limitations.  It has your feelings and capacity to express.  Lastly, it gives you willpower and ability to make decisions.
In our desire to be nice to please others, we deny our true self.
But after knowing and understanding who you really are and what your capable of, have the courage to express and stand up for your true self.
So, take for an instance, when somebody comply you to dance when you cannot dance, learn to say no and offer your singing talent instead.

3. Appreciate Yourself

This may sound funny, but to practice appreciating yourself, do this:
Every time you look in the mirror, you must like what you see.  More than you did yesterday.
If you want to be appreciated, you have to start with the person closest to you, that’s YOU.

4. Respect Yourself

Our generation loves to belong to the “in” crowd, so people tend to follow what most people does.  As such, the word “different” and “unique” becomes a thing in the past or at times, abnormal.
We are created by God as original.  We must not forget that and stoop to become copies.
Do not be disappointed with your weakness while be proud and enhance your strengths.  Respect that both your strengths and weaknesses are part of your identity as an individually mature person.

5. Love Yourself

Sometimes, we get too preoccupied with all the things we need to do and relationships we have to build, that we tend to prioritize ourselves the least.
But as Whitney Houston’s famous song entitled “Greatest Love of All” have said,
Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
The one true definition of happiness is being a good friend of oneself.

6. Laugh at Yourself

Happy are you if you can laugh at yourself!  You will never cease to be amused.  Those who can’t laugh at themselves leave the job to others.
Remember:        Do not take yourself too seriously.
Be kind to yourself when you make mistake and accept your finiteness in these infinite world.
Make sense out of your failures and sufferings.  These gives you insight that can transform your life.  Just dust it off and keep moving forward.
To end this post, we hope that these simple steps can help you become as happy and mature person that you can be.  That at the time you reach your old age, you can truly say that you have lived a very meaningful life.

20 Things to Remind Yourself Daily

In a world full of chaos, anxiety and stress, it is rather easy to be negative and burdened with our life.  We may constantly sense like we are carrying the weight of the world in our shoulders.
With our desire to succeed and get ahead in life, we fill our schedules with too many engagements which cause us to rush from one activity to another.  It seems like setting a time to rest and rejuvenate are the most forbidden activities.  But despite of our own choice in creating a busy and stressful lifestyle, ironically, we constantly complain on how stressful and tiresome our life is.  We blame other people on our hardship instead of taking responsibility of our own inability in making the right choices and actions.
To help you better cope with the chaos, anxiety and stress of the modern world we live in, the key is to take a moment to think back and remind yourself of these simple yet very important wisdom, “20 Things to Remind Yourself Daily”.
This daily reminders may not finish your task, but it will change how you approach and respond to life circumstances.

1. Remind yourself that… you are unique and one of a kind.

Always remember that you were created to make your own mark, a unique identity, in this world.  Nobody can dictate to you who you should become, you are responsible in discovering and becoming who you want to be.

2. Remind yourself that… your presence is a present to the world.

You may not know or realize it, but one way or another, someone feels so blessed with your existence.  So stop saying you’re nobody, that you don’t have value.  Remember that no one becomes a failure unless he gives up trying.

3. Remind yourself that… your life can be just what you want it to be.

Most of life is a choice, having the freedom to act and decide on your own.  Start deciding and stop complaining.  Remember, life is what you make it.

4. Remind yourself to… take the days just one at a time.

Rushing isn’t all beneficial.  Take time to smell the flowers.  Don’t overdo yourself.  Learn to appreciate life today, for tomorrow; you may not have the chance to do so.

5. Remind yourself to… count your blessings not your troubles.

There are two types of a person, a proactive and a reactive.  The latter always see the negative, like trouble, and keeps on blaming life circumstance to other people.  On the other hand, the former sees the positive of life.  They focus their energy and time in resolving troubles so that they can move on to more important things.  They don’t blame or complain. Now, it’s take time for you to reflect, what type of person are you?

6. Remind yourself that… within you are so many answers.

One of the huge disadvantages of a hurried lifestyle is the lack of meditation and reflection.    We are too busy, too preoccupied.  But if you really want to find true happiness in this life, you have to be still, to quiet your mind so that you can hear your heart.

7. Remind yourself to… understand, have courage, be strong.

Accepting the fact that life is imperfect gives you enough space to expect it to be hard.  You have to understand and accept that life circumstance is not always within our control.  We can make choices in life, but we can’t fully control the results of life.  Which is why for those things you can’t control, you have to learn how to accept, understand and move forward.  Remember, life is 90% choice and 10% chance.

8. Remind yourself that… you’ll make it through whatever comes along.

In times of affliction, it can be tough to see the lighter side.  But do always remember, that all storms have endings.  Just keep moving forward.

9. Remind yourself that… there are so many dreams waiting to be realized.

A goal without action is nothing but a dream.  It is good when you know what you want and have set your plans.  However, if it is only written, it can’t be realized.  You have to take action.  You have to wake up, stand up and work your way to make it a reality.

10. Remind yourself that… decisions are too important to leave to chance.

Remember, life is 90% choice and 10% chance.  Notice that we are in control of our life 90% of the time and yet, many people give all to chances.  We let things happen instead of making things happen.

11. Remind yourself to… not put limits on yourself.

One of the differences between achievers and non-achievers is the size of their dreams.  Big people achieve big dreams because they think big.  The same is true to small people.  They achieve smaller dreams because they think small.  The key then is to have confidence in oneself and think BIG!

12. Remind yourself that… nothing wastes more energy than worrying.

Worry is a complete waste of energy.  Even how much you think about it over and over, it will not solve anything.  Worry gives you nothing but bad feelings.  Instead of investing your time thinking of the problem, shift your thoughts on how you can solve it and then move on.

13. Remind yourself that… the longer you carry a problem, the heavier it gets.

When faced with bad situation or problem, most of us leave it behind undecided.  We may think that the safest solution is leaving it to chances.  However, indecision does not solve the problem.  It only gives you temporary relief.  But sooner or later, you will feel its impact.  Most of the time, it’s bigger than the original.  Remember, don’t avoid problems, instead, be braved enough to face and solve it so you can move forward fast.  Stop being a coward!

14. Remind yourself to… Live a life of serenity, not regrets.

People who find it hard to succeed in life are those who live in the shadow of the past.  They cling too much of what they used to have that they seldom adapt and move forward in life.  Remember that you can no longer alter what happened in the past but you can change your future.  Accept what had happened and learn to move on.

15. Remind yourself to… do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.

Majority of us do the same thing every day for a couple of years.  It’s like a cycle that just goes round and round.  The tendency of this kind of life is that you get too relaxed that you may find life as boring.  But instead of focusing on the negative feeling of boredom, why not take charge and create a change.  Sometimes, change does not only happen by surprise.  You have the capacity to create change.  And why not do it now?  Who knows, it will give you the big break you’ve been dreaming of.

16. Remind yourself to… not take yourself too seriously.

Remember, no one else does.  The only person that becomes hampered when you are too serious is you.  Keep a mature mind but a young heart.  Smile, you look better when you do.

17. Remind yourself that… friendship is a wise investment.

True friendship lasts forever.  You may not see them often but when friendship is true, even how time and distance separates you, true friends are the one that stays with you.  If you found this type of friends, care and treasure them.  For it is one of the best gifts you will ever receive in your life.

18. Remind yourself to… reach for your peak, your goal, your prize.

Remember that as long as you are alive, you have all the chance to achieve your goals and dreams.  Don’t get discourage by past failures.  Keep striving.  Be aware that success comes from multiple failures.  And those who win are those who have finished the race.

19. Remind yourself to… take time to wish upon a star.

Have faith with your dreams until you achieve it.  Nothing is impossible when you believe.

20. Remind yourself that… it’s never too late.

Often times we resist change because we think that it is too late for us to change.  Recall that we all have countless chances in this life.  You just have to learn accepting change.
For a final world, in our world full of clutter and negative things, we need a daily reminder of positive affirmation and motivation to overcome all the stress and hardship that life brings.
May this list be such reminder.  Make use of this list.  Print it, post it and share it.

" Watch your thoughts, for they become words.  Watch your words, for they become actions.  Watch your actions, for they become habits.  Watch your habits, for they become character.  Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny  "

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Have you ever Westlife


Bila engkau memandang segalanya daripada Tuhanmu, yang mencipta segalanya, yang menimpakan ujian, yang menjadikan sakit hatimu, yang membuatkan keinginanmu terhalang serta menyusahkan hidupmu, pasti akan damailah hatimu masakan ALLAH sengaja mentakdirkan segalanya untuk sesuatu yang sia-sia, bukanlah ALLAH tak tahu deritanya hidupmu, retaknya hatimu, tapi mungkin itulah yang DIA mahu kerana DIA tahu isi hati yang sebeginilah yang selalunya lebih lunak dan mudah untuk dekat dan  akrab dengan-NYA....


Just Experience the Life. Nothing lasts forever. Change is the rule of Life. So accept every changes and Enjoy every moment of Life. Live in the moment. Because there is no another Life and its not rehearsal. We can not restart Life. Well Life is a mystery but Live in present and Live Life Lively. Every human being is already a master piece just reach there!

Mencari Simpati Ilahi..

Tatkala hati resah
diri mula terasa lemah
sudahlah berduka
tambah pula kecewa
di manakah kesabaran dan ketabahan
untuk kuhadapi dugaan yang mendatang

kadang-kadang kita mudah alpa.
alpa dengan duniawi.
bila musibah menimpa.
baru mencari simpati Ilahi.

adakah kesabaran dan ketabahan sekarang ini
di kala sekarang kuhadapi dugaan mendatang
sepatut bertambah bahagia jika dihadapi dengan tenang
pasti tiada duka
tiada ditambahi kecewa
mengapa hati resah
sedangkan ujian sedang diredah
rugilah terasa lemah sedangkan kena dikuatkan jua

Tiada daya dan upaya melainkan dengan Allah yang Maha Mengetahui dan Maha Besar

PadaMu Ya Allah...

~ Dalam kita melangkah, terkadang diuji dengan ujian yang terasa berat hingga kita terduduk dan menangis..peritnya terasa..Tapi ketahuilah dan renungilah kembali daalam diri kerana mungkin airmata tika itu hadir kerana DIA mahu kita jahit kembali sejadah iman yang kian terkoyak lantaran ada langkah-langkah yang tersasar dari keikhlasan ~

Alangkah indahnya sekiranya aku dapat menunaikan segala janji ku pada Mu....
Hidup ku.....
Mati ku.......
Hanya untuk Mu.....
Setiap nafasku adalah cinta pada Mu....
Setiap gerak ku hanya kerana Mu.....
Ya Allah....berikan aku kekuatan.....

Buat tatapan mereka yang ku kasihi...

Pernahkah anda menatap orang-orang
yang anda sayang saat mereka sedang tidur?
Kalau belum, cubalah sekali saja menatap
mereka saat sedang tidur.

Saat itu yang tampak adalah ekspresi paling
wajar dan paling jujur dari seseorang.
Seorang artis yang ketika di panggung
begitu cantik dan gemerlap pun
akan tampak polos dan jauh
berbeza jika ia sedang tidur.
Orang paling kejam di dunia pun
jika ia sudah tidur tak
akan tampak wajah bengisnya.

Perhatikanlah ayah anda
saat beliau sedang tidur.
Sedarilah, betapa badan yang dulu kuat
dan gagah itu kini semakin tua dan lemah,
betapa rambut-rambut putih
mulai menghiasi kepalanya,
betapa kerut merut mulai terpahat di wajahnya.
Orang inilah yang tiap hari bekerja keras
untuk kesejahteraan kita, anak-anaknya.
Orang inilah, rela melakukan apa saja asal
perut kita kenyang dan pendidikan kita lancar.
Sekarang, beralihlah. …

Lihatlah ibu anda….
Hmm…kulitnya mulai keriput dan tangan
yang dulu halus membelai- belai
tubuh bayi kita itu kini kasar kerana
menempuhi kehidupan yg mencabar demi kita.
Orang inilah yang tiap hari
menguruskn keperluan kita.
Orang inilah yang paling rajin mengingatkan dan
membebeli kita semata- mata
kerana rasa kasih dan sayang,
dan sayangnya, itu sering kita salah ertikan.

Cubalah menatap wajah orang-orang
yang kita cintai..sayangi itu…

Ayah, Ibu, Suami,
Istri, Kakak, Adik, Anak, Sahabat,
Rasakanlah sensasi yang timbul sesudahnya.
Rasakanlah energy cinta yang mengalir
saat menatap wajah mereka yang terlelap itu.
Rasakanlah getaran cinta yang mengalir
deras ketika mengingat betapa
banyaknya pengorbanan yang telah
dilakukan orang-orang itu untuk kebahagiaan anda.
Pengorbanan yang kadang-kadang tertutupi oleh salah faham kecil yang entah kenapa selalu saja nampak besar.
Secara ajaib Tuhan mengatur agar
pengorbanan itu akan tampak lagi
melalui wajah-wajah jujur mereka
saat sedang tidur.

Pengorbanan yang kadang melelahkan
serta memenatkan mereka
namun enggan mereka ungkapkan.
Dan ekspresi wajah ketika tidur pun
membantu untuk mengungkap segalanya.
Tanpa kata, tanpa suara dia
berkata… "betapa
lelahnya..penatnya aku hari ini".
Dan penyebab lelah/penat itu?
Untuk siapa dia berpenat lelah
Tak lain adalah

Suami yang bekerja keras mencari nafkah,
isteri yang bekerja keras mengurus dan
mendidik anak, juga rumah.
Kakak, adik, anak, dan sahabat yang
telah menemani hari-hari suka dan duka
bersama kita.
Resapilah kenangan-kenangan manis dan
pahit yang pernah terjadi dengan
menatap wajah-wajah mereka.
Rasakanlah betapa kebahagiaan dan
rasa terharu seketika menerpa jika
mengingat itu semua.
Bayangkanlah apa yang akan terjadi jika
esok mereka "orang-orang yang dikasih itu"
tidak lagi membuka matanya,
untuk selamanya … "


Kewajipan Wanita Menutup Aurat...

Firman Allah Taala:
Hai Nabi, katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anak perempuanmu dan isteri-isteri orang mukmin: "Hendaklah mereka berjilbab (bertudung dan berpakaian labuh) menutupi tubuh mereka." Yang demikian itu supaya mereka lebih mudah untuk dikenal, karena itu mereka tidak di ganggu. Dan Allah adalah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang. (33:59)

Berdasarkan ayat di atas, ALLAH telah jelas menyatakan perihal mengapa wanita wajib berjilbab (bertudung dan berpakaian labuh yang menutupi tubuh mereka dengan sempurna).

Berikut saya point-kan beberapa hikmah menutup aurat (bagi wanita) berdasarkan ayat di atas secara ringkas:

1. Sebagai lambang bahawa mereka adalah wanita yang beriman dan bertaqwa.
Wanita yang sentiasa beriman dan taat, pasti akan sentiasa mengikuti apa sahaja yang diperintahkan oleh ALLAH dan Rasul-NYA dan meninggalkan sebarang perkara yang dilarang di dalam agamanya (Islam). Berbeza dengan mereka yang tidak beriman (tanpa mengira lelaki mahupun wanita), mereka amat engkar dengan perintah ALLAH dan Rasulullah. Pendek kata, ada sahaja alasannya untuk menolak ketetapan ALLAH. Maka, renungilah ayat berikut:

“Orang-orang munafik laki-laki dan perempuan sebahagian dengan sebahagian yang lain adalah sama, mereka menyuruh membuat yang mungkar dan melarang berbuat yang ma'ruf dan mereka menggenggamkan tangannya (kikir). Mereka telah lupa kepada Allah, maka Allah melupakan mereka. Sesungguhnya orang-orang munafik itu adalah orang-orang yang fasik.” (09:67)

2. Berupaya mengelakkan gangguan daripada golongan yang berhati jahat. “…karena itu mereka tidak di ganggu”….
Bagi point yang kedua ini, saya ingin membawakan satu perumpamaan. Andainya kita seorang lelaki dihidangkan dengan satu ‘show’ yang menayangkan wanita dengan keadaan yang amat menghairahkan (seksi), sudah tentu nafsu syahwat si lelaki akan terangsang sekaligus mencetuskan satu niat yang jahat untuk ‘mendapatkan’ wanita yang dilihatnya itu atau pun wanita lain yang seumpamanya bagi tujuan nafsunya. Tapi, berbeza pula jika kita sebagai lelaki diperlihatkan dengan wanita-wanita solehah yang sentiasa menjaga adabnya sebagai seorang muslimah yang mana lengkap berjilbab. Pasti sejuk mata memandang lalu mampu mendetikkan rasa keinsafan (malu) dalam diri si lelaki. Begitulah hakikatnya peranan jilbab mampu mencegah hati-hati manusia yang berniat jahat.

Dalam ayat yang lain, ALLAH menyatakan perihal yang sama tetapi memfokus kepada suara wanita, “Janganlah perempuan-perempuan itu terlalu lunak dalam berbicara sehingga berkeinginan (menghairahkan) orang yang ada perasaan dalam hatinya (berhati jahat). (33:32)

3. Membezakan sama-ada wanita itu muslim atau non-muslim. “…supaya mereka lebih mudah untuk dikenal…”.
Sebagai seorang wanita muslim, sewajibnya mereka menutup aurat dan bertudung. Yang dengan itu, sekaligus membezakan mereka dengan gaya orang yang bukan muslim. Dan berdasarkan Tafseer Ibn Katheer, jilbab membezakan di antara wanita hamba dengan wanita yang merdeka di mana orang yang merdeka wajib bertudung. Manakala dalam tafsiran yang lain, dinyatakan bahawa pemakaian tudung dan penutupan aurat melambangkan dia adalah wanita yang bertamadun kerana tahu menjaga kehormatannya.

4. Jilbab (menutup aurat) mampu menghalang pelbagai penyakit kulit.
Menurut kajian saintifik terkini membuktikan bahawa kulit wanita adalah lebih sensitif berbanding kulit lelaki. Maka oleh kerana itulah, kulit wanita memerlukan sistem penjagaan yang lebih rapi dan baik berbanding kulit lelaki. Dengan keadaan zaman sekarang ini yang mana, persekitaran kita begitu berbahaya dengan pelbagai jenis pencemaran yang melanda. Saya ambil beberapa contoh pencemaran yang boleh memberi kesan berbahaya kepada kulit. Pencemaran udara, yang mana udara kita dipenuhi dengan pelbagai jenis asap dan debu (dangerous particles). Pencemaran cahaya dan radioaktif. Pencemaran cahaya adalah berpunca daripada penipisan lapisan ozon (light filteration) yang semakin ketara, yang mana pelbagai sinar matahari yang berbahaya dengan mudah terlepas ke permukaan bumi akibat gagal ditapis oleh ozon. Maka, apa alternatifnya yang terbaik untuk mengawal semua jenis pencemaran ini? Tentu sekali pakaian yang baik yang mana mampu menutupi semua bahagian badan kita yang sensitif. Maka dengan itu, sekaligus menunjukkan hikmah wanita diwajibkan memakai jilbab (menutup aurat). Ianya sungguh relevan sekali dengan suasana masa kini yang begitu berbahaya kepada organ kulit kita, terutamanya wanita yang jauh sangat sensitif terhadap kesan pencemaran tersebut. Tanpa perlu berbelanja mahal untuk bahan-bahan kimia penjagaan kulit yang belum tentu terjamin kebaikannya dan mungkin ada kesan jangka panjangnya yang jauh lebih berbahaya, maka pakailah pakaian yang menutup aurat. Ianya lebih selamat dan dijamin oleh ALLAH sejak lama dahulu lagi. Dan ianya terbukti tiada kesan sampingan.


Ingatlah rakan-rakan wanita ku. Jika anda menganggap pakaian ‘haram’ yang anda peragakan itu lebih cantik daripada pakaian yang disarankan oleh ALLAH, maka sebenarnya anda telah cuba menyatakan bahawa pakaian yang disarankan oleh ALLAH itu adalah tidak cantik. Maka, di masa anda menyatakan demikian (ditambah anda mempraktikkannya), maka anda di saat itu sedang melakukan suatu kesyirikan yang tidak kurang besarnya, dan menunjukkan anda sungguh berani kerana perbuatan anda itu sebenarnya menunjukkan anda sedang melawan (memprotes) ALLAH. Na’uzubillah…

Buat Lelaki:

Katakanlah kepada orang laki-laki yang beriman: "Hendaklah mereka menahan pandanganya, dan memelihara kemaluannya; yang demikian itu adalah lebih suci bagi mereka, sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui apa yang mereka perbuat." (24:30)

Buat Wanita:

Katakanlah kepada wanita yang beriman: "Hendaklah mereka menahan pandangannya, dan kemaluannya, dan janganlah mereka menampakkan perhiasannya (auratnya), kecuali yang (biasa) nampak dari padanya. Dan hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain kudung kedadanya, dan janganlah menampakkan perhiasannya kecuali kepada mahramnya… (24:31)

Islamic Diet...


Ini adalah antara hikmah cara pemakanan Rasullulah SAW. Ustaz Abdullah Mahmood kata, Rasullulah tak pernah sakit perut sepanjang hayatnya kerana pandai jaga pemakanannya.

Apa kata kita ikut diet ini. Tak payahlah susah-susah makan pil untuk kurus, InsyaAllah kalau kita ikut diet Rasullullah ini, gerenti kawan-kawan tak akan sakit perut ataupun keracunan makanan.

1. Jangan makan SUSU + DAGING
2. Jangan makan DAGING + IKAN
3. Jangan makan IKAN + SUSU
4. Jangan makan AYAM + SUSU
5. Jangan makan IKAN + TELUR
6. Jangan makan IKAN + DAUN SALAD
7. Jangan makan SUSU + CUKA
8. Jangan makan BUAH + SUSU CTH :- KOKTEL




Nampak memanglah pelik.. Tapi, kalau tak percaya...Cuba laa.. Ianya takdelah dalam jangka masa terdekat.. Ianya berkesan bila kita sudah tua nanti.

Dalam kitab juga ada melarang memakan makanan darat bercampur dengan makanan laut. Nabi pernah menegah kita makan ikan bersama susu. Khuatiri akan cepat mendapat penyakit. Ini terbukti oleh saintis yang menjumpai di mana dalam badan ayam mengandungi ion Positif manakala dalam ikan mengandungi ion Negatif, jika dalam suapan ayam bercampur dengan ikan maka terjadi tidakkan balas biokimia yang terhasil yang boleh merosakkan usus kita.

Antara amalan yang perlu kita perbanyakkan adalah seperti :-

-Mandi Pagi sebelum subuh @ sekurang kurangnya sejam sebelum matahari naik. Air sejuk yang meresap ke dalam badan boleh mengurangkan lemak mengumpul. Kita boleh saksikan orang mengamal mandi pagi kebanyakan badan tak gemuk.

-Rasulullah mengamalkan minum segelas air sejuk (bukan air ais) setiap pagi. Mujarabnya InsyaAllah jauh dari penyakit (susah nak kena sakit).

Waktu sembahyang subuh disunatkan kita bertafakur (iaitu sujud sekurang kurangnya seminit selepas membaca doa). Ia boleh mengelak dari sakit pening atau migrin. Ini terbukti oleh para saintis yang membuat kajian kenapa dalam sehari perlu kita sujud. Ahli-ahli sains telah menemui beberapa milimeter ruang udara dalam saluran darah di kepala yg tidak dipenuhi darah. Dengan bersujud maka darah akan mengalir ke ruang berkenaan.

Nabi juga mengajar kita makan dengan tangan dan bila habis hendaklah menjilat jari. Begitu juga ahli saintis telah menjumpa bahawa enzyme banyak terkandung di celah jari jari, iaitu 10 kali ganda terdapat dalam air liur. (enzyme sejenis alat percerna makanan, tanpanya makanan tidak hadam).

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Food for Thought........

Take time to THINK : it is the sourse of power.

Take time to READ : it is the foundation of wisdom.

Take time to PLAY : it is the secret of staying young.

Take time to BE QUIET : it is the opportunity to seek GOD.

Take time to BE AWARE : it is the opportunity to help others.

Take time to LOVE & BE LOVED : it is God's greatest gift.

Take time to LAUGH : it is the music of the soul.

Take time to BE FRIENDLY : it is the road to happiness.

Take time to DREAM : it is what the future is made of.

Take time to PRAY : it is the greatest power on earth.